11 I'm talking like a fool, but you made me do it! You should really have been speaking well of me, for in no way am I inferior to the super-apostles,[b] even though I don't count for anything. 12 Yet the marks of an apostle were patiently demonstrated among you—signs, wonders, and powerful miracles. 13 In what way were you inferior to the other churches except I wasn't any burden to you? Please forgive me for doing you wrong![c] 14 Now I'm preparing to visit you for the third time, and I won't be a burden to you. I don't want what you have, I want you yourselves! After all, children shouldn't save up for their parents, but parents should for their children. 15 I will happily spend myself, and be spent, for you. If I love you so much more, will you love me even less? 16 Well, even if that's so, I wasn't a burden to you. Maybe I was being devious, and tricked you with my cunning ways! 17 But did I take advantage of you by anyone I've sent to you? 18 I urged Titus to go and see you, and I sent another brother with him. Did Titus take advantage of you? No, we both have the same spirit and use the same methods. 19 Maybe you're thinking that all along we've been just trying to defend ourselves. No, we speak for Christ before God. Everything we do, friends, is for your benefit. 20 I do worry when I visit that somehow I won't find you as I would want to, and that you won't find me as you would want to! I'm afraid that there will be arguments, jealousy, anger, rivalry, slander, gossip, arrogance, and disorder. 21 I'm afraid that when I visit, my God will humble me in your presence, and that I will be weeping over many of those who have sinned previously, and who still have not repented of impurity, sexual immorality, and indecent acts that they committed.